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        Self-Acceptance — Red Obsidian, Lava Stone & Pyrite Bracelet

        Meet yourself honestly. Build from there.

        $79 $63 USD

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        Most men choose 21cm. Fits 18.5–19.5cm wrists.

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        Black Friday · until 1 Dec · $63 for this piece (20% off) · 25% off with any second piece · 30% off with 3 or more pieces Comes off at checkout.

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        “ My second bracelet from these guys and again great quality! Love it!! Best customer service! !”

        Alan M., verified buyer · Inner Strength

        Designed for daily wear. 6mm Red Obsidian and Lava Stone with 4mm Pyrite beads on flexible stainless steel wire with Sterling Silver hardware. Made to order in Queensland, Australia. Nothing decorative. Nothing unnecessary.

        Materials & details
        Crafted
        Made to order · QLD, Australia
        Stones
        Red Obsidian · Lava Stone · Pyrite
        Bead diameter
        6mm Red Obsidian & Lava Stone · 4mm Pyrite
        Hardware
        Sterling Silver
        Construction
        Flexible stainless steel wire
        Packaging
        Gift-ready · No invoice included
        Guarantee
        12-month quality guarantee
        Exchanges
        30 days from delivery
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        How to find your size

        Wrist Bracelet length
        15.5–16.5cm
        16.5–17.5cm
        17.5–18.5cm
        18.5–19.5cm
        19.5–20.5cm
        20.5–21.5cm
        21.5–22.5cm

        Prefer it snug? Go down a size. Prefer it loose? Go up one.

        Not sure? We offer an easy size exchange within 30 days of delivery. Returns & exchanges

        How to measure

        Every bracelet is made to order. Getting the size right means it sits well, moves with you, and lasts. Measuring takes 30 seconds.

        1. 1. Wrap a soft tape measure around your wrist, just below the wrist bone, where you'd wear a bracelet.
        2. 2. No tape? Wrap a strip of paper around instead, mark where it meets, then measure it against a ruler.
        3. 3. Keep it snug but not tight. That's your wrist size.
        4. 4. Find it in the chart above.

        How to find your size

        Necklace length determines where a piece sits and how it layers. Most men wear 46–50cm for a clean solo look. For layering, keep at least 4cm between lengths.

        Length Where it sits Note
        / 18" Collarbone Sits at the base of the neck
        / 19" Below collarbone —
        / 20" Upper chest Versatile for daily wear
        / 20.5" Mid-upper chest —
        / 21" Mid chest Strong layering length
        / 22" Lower-mid chest —
        / 23" Lower chest Statement length

        Not sure? We offer an easy size exchange within 30 days of delivery. Returns & exchanges

        The Self-Acceptance Intention

        Honesty · Warmth · Ground

        For the man who is done waiting to like himself. What that ease gives him. Where self-criticism passes for growth. The work of building from where he actually stands.

        The Strength

        • Honesty about your edges without theatre
        • A self that does not require constant maintenance
        • A presence that does not need anyone to validate it
        • The kind of ease that other men quietly read as ground

        The Challenge

        • Waiting to like yourself once the metrics arrive
        • Confusing self-criticism with growth
        • Editing the parts of you that others find inconvenient
        • Treating self-acceptance like a soft skill instead of a precondition

        The Work

        • Take the current version of yourself seriously
        • Tell the honest version without softening or punishing
        • Stop using future-you as a tool to dismiss present-you
        • Build from where you actually stand

        Compare the Transformation Intentions

        Not quite you? Take the 60-second quiz

        The Build

        Start with the man you are.

        Red Obsidian is volcanic glass coloured by iron oxide inclusions. Less common than its black counterpart and warmer in tone. The warmth is what most men leave out of honesty. Looking without going cold.

        Self-Acceptance is for the man who has decided the man in the mirror is worth working with. It is the choice to see him clearly and build from where he stands. Every real change starts there.

        The Daily Practice

        Build from where you stand.

        Describe where you actually stand, plainly, the way you'd describe a friend's situation. Then pick one thing to build from there, today.

        When you put this on each morning, ask yourself:

        • What am I refusing to start because I do not like the version of me who would have to start it?
        • Where am I treating self-criticism like proof I take this seriously?
        • What would change if I worked with the man I am today?
        • What would I say to a friend in exactly my position?

        The version of you who shows up tomorrow is built by the one who shows up today.

        Self-Acceptance · $79 USD

        The practice starts here.

        Select size Size guide

        Most men choose 21cm. Fits 18.5–19.5cm wrists.

        Ships in 2 business days

        The Stones

        Red Obsidian

        Volcanic Glass: SiO₂ (with Iron Oxide)

        Honest warmth. Lets him see himself clearly and still build from where he stands.

        Volcanic glass coloured red to mahogany by iron oxide, rarer than black obsidian. Held to the light, many beads show a warm red glow. Associated with self-acceptance, emotional honesty, and self-worth.

        Origin
        Mexico, USA
        Hardness
        5-5.5 Mohs
        Colour
        Deep red to mahogany with black
        About Red Obsidian

        Also in this pieceLava StonePyrite

        Worn Together

        The pair that ends the audition.

        Self-Acceptance

        You can look at yourself without flinching.

        Where you get stuck is editing yourself for other people.

        Inner Wisdom

        Inner Wisdom is built for that: judgement you've tested and can stand on.

        Discover Inner Wisdom

        $158 $142 USD Save $16 · 10% off

        Select size Size guide

        Most men choose 21cm. Fits 18.5–19.5cm wrists.

        Self-Acceptance Size guide

        Most men choose 21cm. Fits 18.5–19.5cm wrists.

        Inner Wisdom Size guide

        Most men choose 21cm. Fits 18.5–19.5cm wrists.

        Ships in 2 business days

        View Inner Wisdom

        Sterling Silver

        Sterling silver, all the way through.

        The clasp and findings are sterling silver through and through, so there is no plating to wear away. Like all real silver it can darken with time; a soft polishing cloth brings it straight back. Made to be worn daily, for years.

        Reviews

        From men who wear it.

        From other Mana customers

        Excellent!!!

        My second bracelet from these guys and again great quality! Love it!! Best customer service! !

        Alan M. · Verified buyer · Inner Strength

        I love it

        The necklace is perfect in every way. Thank you so much Mana for Men for this

        Brett T. · Verified buyer · Balance

        Very nice

        Absolutely beautiful bracelet. My son loves it. Fast shipping. A lovely gift.

        Janice w. · Verified buyer

        Eye of the Tiger!

        Gorgeous gift, perfect fit …. It’s a great addition for my energy flow. Love my bracelets

        George A. · Verified buyer · Fortitude

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        About Self-Acceptance

        What does the Self-Acceptance bracelet represent?

        Self-Acceptance is for the man who is done waiting for the better version to arrive before he likes the current one. It represents the precondition of every real change.

        If you're not sure which Intention fits you, take the 60-second Intention quiz.

        What stones are in the Self-Acceptance bracelet?

        The Self-Acceptance bracelet is made with Red Obsidian, Lava Stone and Pyrite, set with sterling silver hardware and stainless steel wire.

        Red Obsidian is volcanic glass coloured by iron oxide inclusions, less common than its black counterpart. Warmer in tone, associated with the active work of meeting yourself honestly and deciding you are worth building on.

        How do I know if Self-Acceptance is the right Intention for me?

        Choose Self-Acceptance if you have been postponing action until you are a different person first, if self-criticism has started looking the same as growth, or if editing yourself for other people has become a habit.

        For a guided recommendation across all 24 Intentions, take the 60-second Intention quiz.

        Can I wear the Self-Acceptance bracelet and necklace together?

        Yes, they're made to be worn together. One stone, worn at the wrist and at the chest, holds the line on the man you already are.

        How is Self-Acceptance different from Self-Awareness?

        Self-Awareness sees the man honestly. Self-Acceptance decides he is worth working with. The second is what makes the first one useful. Self-Acceptance sits within the transformation and renewal theme of the Intentions collection; Self-Awareness within focus and clarity.

        Ordering & care

        What sizes are available?

        Intention bracelets come in seven sizes from 18 cm to 24 cm, fitting wrists 15.5 cm to 22.5 cm. The 21 cm size is the most common choice. Measure your wrist with the size guide and add 2 cm for a standard fit or 3 cm for a relaxed fit.

        How does it fasten, and will it stretch?

        It closes with a Sterling Silver clasp. The beads are strung on flexible stainless steel wire, so it moves with your wrist but does not stretch or sag over time.

        Are the stones natural?

        Every stone in an Intention is genuine natural stone. Variation in colour and pattern is part of it: no two pieces are identical. See the stone library for the meaning and formation of each one.

        What are the clasp and findings made of?

        Sterling Silver, with no plating or coating, so there is no surface layer to wear through. Like all real silver it can darken with time; a soft polishing cloth brings it straight back.

        Is it safe for sensitive skin?

        Most of what touches your skin is natural stone. The wire is coated stainless steel and almost entirely covered by the beads, so the main metal contact is the clasp and findings, which are Sterling Silver. If you have a known metal allergy, check these materials against it before ordering, or contact us and we'll send the full component list.

        How should I care for my bracelet?

        Remove your bracelet before swimming, showering, or heavy exercise to protect the stones and the wire. Store it flat when you're not wearing it. Wipe it with a soft, dry cloth.

        See the care guide for stone-specific notes.

        How long does shipping take?

        Each bracelet is made to order in Queensland, Australia. We aim to dispatch within 2 business days. Every piece is handmade after you order, so occasionally it can take a little longer.

        During peak sale and holiday periods, allow up to 4 business days for your shipping confirmation. See the shipping policy for details.

        Do you ship internationally? What does shipping cost?

        Yes, we ship worldwide. In Australia, Standard shipping is free on orders over $119 (otherwise $10) and Express is free over $249 (otherwise $13). In the US, Standard shipping is free over US$99, with duties included. For every other country, shipping is calculated at checkout.

        Can I return or exchange my bracelet?

        You can return unworn bracelets in original condition within 30 days of delivery. You'll receive a credit note to use on another size or piece. We don't refund change of mind because each piece is made to order with natural stones, but we'll always work with you on sizing.

        See the returns policy for full terms.

        What does it come with?

        Every piece ships in a Mana for Men box with a card explaining its stones and the Intention behind them.

        Is it a good gift?

        Yes. Every piece ships in a Mana for Men box with a card that explains its stones, so it arrives ready to give.

        How do I wear it day to day?

        Designed for daily wear. Wear it alone or layered with other pieces. Made for life, work, and the moments that call for focus.

        Take it off before swimming, showering or heavy exercise.

        Is there a guarantee?

        Yes. Every Intention is covered by our 12-month guarantee. If a piece fails under normal daily wear within 12 months, Mana for Men will repair or replace it.

        The Practice Begins

        Choose your Intention.
        Wear it daily.

        Self-Acceptance is ready when you are. Made to order. Built with intention.

        $79 USD

        12-month guarantee · 30-day exchanges

        Select size Size guide

        Most men choose 21cm. Fits 18.5–19.5cm wrists.

        Ships in 2 business days

        Not quite you? Take the 60-second quiz

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